I love a good favorite things list. The Nester hosted a linky last week inviting everyone to share a list of their own. I even began a traditional one, complete with Gussy headbands (they’re cute and don’t give headband headache!), Mrs. Meyers Iowa Pine Liquid Hand Soap (your hands smell like evergreen all day!), and Season One of Parenthood (my current favorite show). As I continued to add things, I couldn’t come up with enough thing-type things and my favorites began to sound more like experiences anyway. So I changed it, and remarkably, now the whole list is free.
1. Wake in the morning, just a bit before normal, or linger at night for a few minutes more. But do it once, and you’ll likely do it again. Take his hand, look him in his eyes, and ask, How can I help you today? Tomorrow?
2. Pull one of those books right off the shelf, one you’ve been meaning to read. Open it up and give yourself thirty minutes with it. Or fifteen if that’s all you have. Let the poetry, the images, the ideas of someone else sink down as deep as time will allow. Then tomorrow, do it again.
3. Make a fire with wood and everything. Wrap the kids in blankets, roast the marshmallows, smell the wood, tell the stories, breathe in winter, and give thanks.
4. I’ve talked about building your bench here before – doing that thing that makes you come alive, finding those plans you have tucked away, that message that burns deep, that art you can’t stop thinking about – find a bench to sit upon and consider the one you’re building.
5. Leave your ear buds at home and take a walk in the quiet. Walk with your back to the wind, or straight into it if you really want to feel alive. Listen to the thoughts that come to the surface and refuse to talk yourself out of them. Simply, receive them as they are and let the Lord receive you.
6. Let the mess be so you can, too. Have them bring the toys down from their rooms, spread the blocks all over the living room floor, lay on your stomach and play along.
7. That person who has frustrated you? That hurt you can’t let go? Those words they spoke that cut deep and wide and made a mess of things? Consider what it might mean to regard those who have hurt you not according to their mistakes in their flesh but according to their wholeness in the Spirit. Is it possible?
8. The next time she shares her burdens with you, look into her eyes and hear what she’s actually saying. Don’t rush ahead and think about what she ought to do or what advice you might have to offer. Simply, listen and give the gift of understanding.
9. Act justly. Love mercy. Walk humbly.
10. And so I have to end with this – my favorite thing from this year that you can actually hold in your hands Grace for the Good Girl: Letting Go of the Try-Hard Life
Ahh…. going on that walk. I had to miss a season due to an injury, but I should be able to start walking again. You’ve reminded me of the JOY…. thanks!
Knowing as the day draws to a close that all the children are at home (the oldest can drive now) and safe in their beds and that DH and I can rest easy too.
I love the scent of my daughters’ soft, little-girl cheeks just after bath…takes me instantly back to that gorgeous time when they were wee and brand new and practically edible 🙂
So many favorite things… deep-breathing-sleeping-beagle sounds, the smell of vanilla being added to cookie batter, lying cozy in bed while listening to rain on the window, that post-run completely exhausted but totally exhilarated feeling, the feeling you get when you meet someone for the first time and instantly know they`ll be a kindred spirit…
Thanks for the opportunity to reflect on favorite things.
I love when my 18 month old little guy tugs on my pant leg, trying to pull me away from my busyness, just because he wants me to see him dance. And of course I always join in with him! There is something about dancing that just reminds me of pure JOY! Though I’d never seen my grandparents dance before, while suffering from alzheimers my grandmother often asked my grandfather to dance with her. I imagine the two of them have spent a lot of time dancing in heaven ever since 😉
This was a beautiful post, when all the other “wish lists” are of THINGS. Thanks for the inspiration.
On my wish list, a gift I can give to myself? Waking earlier and enjoying slow mornings cozied up with some coffee and spend time with the Lord. I have been neglecting this discipline for too long these last few months.
I love the things wish lists too! It just didn’t seem to fit here – and those slow mornings just can’t be beat, can they?
getting up with the sun on a Sunday morning, and heading to my local trash and treasure market. i just love walking around, coffee in hand, enjoying the sunshine and the anticipation of the treasures i may find! Kate x
when He speaks to me…
xo
I love the challenge to read the book I’ve been meaning to. It seems like everything is always more pressing than giving myself a few minutes to just rest and take in the art and ideas of another. I will do that more this week.
I love the sweet moments of prayer at bedtime with my 8yo son.
One of my favorite things is walking my kids to school every morning. We observe the seasons, watch for birds, run down the hills, and get our wiggles out before sitting inside all day.
Getting up early to be alone with the twinkling tree lights and just breathe and listen in silence. It feels like a luxury.
Sitting in the sunshine, letting the rays warm me, especially during Spring, when there are still cold days where the heater is on, but the next day is warm enough to enjoy lunch outside with just a t-shirt on and the sun warming my shoulders. Nothing better!
This was a great question to ponder. My children go to a very small, and very old school in the country, with just over 100 children. We moved there from a bustling, coastal town 18 months ago. So to arrive onto the school grounds, which is set a top a small hill overlooking farmland and two meandering rivers; I walk across what seem like ancient cobbled bricks and beneath mature gum trees…. but that visual feast is soon eclipsed by the unmistakeable smell of damp and earthy horses, and sweet hay. And as I approach the classroom, closer down towards the farm, I can hear the low of cattle and the odd whinnie of a restless horse. These scents and sounds call me like a pied piper, I force myself onwards to the classroom. Why does this have such an effect on me, apart from being a refreshing ‘tree change’, I think it is probably nostalgia – reminding me of simple childhood holidays on my Grandparents farm. I can’t give those treasured holidays to my children, but I am so thankful that they have this opportunity, to go to school in this setting. To them it is probably normal now, but for me the blessing is new every morning.
When my daughter comes home from college and I can hug and squeeze her!!!!! It’s the best! I cannot wait to see her in a few weeks!
Singing with friends around the piano, or out in the woods with a guitar.
The sound of my children belly-laughing…not at each other but in unison at something they find amusing.
The smell of coffee and the taste of early morning silence.
The feel of a brand new magazine and the luxury of time to curl up and read it – guilt-free.
Seeing my children eat with gusto at the dinner I prepare. (doesnt happen often though, which makes it so darn special!)
I love ALL of these!
I love all of these too!!!!!!!
gathering the whole family (husband and three teens) in the evening, lighting candels and taking turns to read out loud to each other and then sharing our thoughts on what we just heard, the good things that happened during the day that is coming to a close… my all time favorite
I have loved Emily’s book… my new favorite thing would be to have copies to share with all my friends who are ‘good girls’. Praying I have money left in my Christmas budget to buy a few to give away.
Blessings on the journey~
I am halfway through your book, Emily, but would LOVE to win a copy to give away for Christmas as a gift!! It is so wonderful…and has met me in so many places exactly where I am. One of my favorite things this season has been getting up earlier than usual and sitting by the Christmas tree, with only those lights, and talking with God, reading my Bible, etc. It has been such a sweet time for me.
One of my favorite things is hearing my nine and eleven-year-old daughters treating each other with kindness and respect – without being reminded to do it.
One of my favorite things is the feeling I get (nervous, excited, happy, etc.) when I hear more from God about what He is calling me to and then starting out on that path. Scary but wonderful.
One of my favourite things is taking things slowly and allowing myself to do my chores and read those books I’ve been intending to read in the natural rhythm that fits.
My current and possibly most favorite thing ever is listening to my daughter practice piano. It’s beautiful to hear her developing this gift God has given her.
My very newest favorite thing is the Favorite Things party idea!! It looks like so much fun, and I am already scheming about how I can squeeze one in with my besties before Christmas!
Me too! I love this idea – my mom and sister and I are doing a favorite things Christmas with each other where we get them some of our own favorite things. It’s been so fun shopping so far!
My two favorite things right now involve leaving the gifts unwrapped and the cards unaddressed and snuggling on the coach with two little girls, a cozy blanket and a pile of Chrstmas books!
The smell of bread in the oven… a little time to work on a sewing project… going to bed early & waking rested in the morning.
What a great list!! One of my favorite things is waking up before the sun, and before anyone else in my house! and praying. Just listening to Him in the quiet and hearing Him speak~ ahh, peace!!
Candlelit bubble baths with music playing. Simple. Nothing to do but relax and enjoy.
Your #7 resonates in my soul and brings tears to my eyes this morning. Thank you for the encouragement! My favorite thing right now is to come into a dark room and turn on the Christmas tree. The beautiful white lights chase the dark and chill away and remind me of what happens to the dark when Jesus is in the room! The glow from Him draws you in and begs you to sit and stare and reach out in wonder, and to touch, with just one finger, something beautiful on the Tree!
One of my favorite things is sitting in the living room with no lights on except the ones on my Christmas tree. It brings up that feeling of “anything can happen”. It feels peaceful and puts things in perspective somehow for me. It’s calming. It’s contentment and hope.
1-A hug from my husband
2- watching my daughter dance
This is absolutely beautiful, Emily!
Lately my “gifts” have been a quiet game night at home with my husband, sitting on the floor playing Yahtzee, listening to music, candles burning cheerfully nearby. Or another favorite (that costs $1.95!), is sitting at Panera with a cup of coffee and spending a few hours just talking with him. Away from the distractions of our busy life and just focusing on each other. Listening to the words, taking it all in. really listening. It’s been a blessing.
And quiet evenings reading, “unplugged”, and being fed by the words on the page.
Thanks for these reminders…these simple joys.
Blessings ~
I appreciate them all, sweet Emily; #2, especially. {hugs}
I love starting my day with a run in the quiet of the morning. There’s something so refreshing and free-ing about running. 🙂
The sleepy-snuggly moments right before my one-year-old’s nap, or right after he wakes up… (and of course every mama’s favorite – sneaking in to watch him sleep).
Yes. For me it’s the quiet walks, the early morning reading, the laying in a pile of toys with my kids and just being. 🙂 I have been wanting to read your book. 🙂
Lazy days at home with the kids when we don’t have to rush around. Watching the sun rise in the mornings. Picking my kids up from school and hearing about their days. I could go on and on, but those of some of my favorites.
I love walks in the country by myself and I love early mornings alone with God’s word (please, 3 year old, just stay in bed a little longer so mommy can start her day alone with the Lord)!!!!!
My favorite thing right now is the five minute walk back to my house after running. I switch the playlist on my iPod from heart-pumping cardio music to reflective praise/worship music and spend those five minutes worshiping the One who gives me the strength to run and face the day’s challenges.
The first snowfall…beautiful white flakes of pureness falling from the sky…covering the dirtyness that lays on the earth…for that moment seeing everything clean and beautiful. Enjoying the peace that comes in the moment.
Thank you the simple reminders. I am not able walk and am currently in a wheelchair. It is been so hard on me and I really low my perspective. Thanks again!!
Emily, I would love to win a copy of your book. Don’t laugh, please…but one of my favorite things is snuggling with my dog 🙂 We rescued her from an animal adoption shelter a year ago this month, and now that our nest is empty, she has helped me not feel so lonely. I really think God knew we needed each other. I’m grateful for our pets and animal friends.
Running early with my dear friend on a cold winter’s morning and then heading to Starbucks, our reward, for a Grande Christmas Blend in a Venti cup. {I need lots of room for the cream.} I’m a slow-to-wake-up sort of girl, always have been. But running gets me going in the best sort of way and sets the tone for the day.
“Do Christmas” (the decorating, the baking, etc.) the way your kids think it should be done. Catch the Christmas spirit from them.
1. Lunch with my friend
2. Wedding plans with my daughter
3. Time with my sisters
4. Afternoon naps
5. Quiet meditation
6. Teaching God’s words
7. Giant chocolate buttons
8. My Mother
9. Reading a good book
10. Helping someone else research their family tree
I love reading aloud to my children, especially the older ones, by candlelight out on the front porch on a summer evening.
I would so love to win a copy of your book for me and my daughter! I actually won one from Emily W. at Imperfect Prose, but because I was in the hospital being diagnosed with cancer (lymphoma) at the time, I wasn’t checking my blog email account regularly, and missed her notifications. Of course, when she didn’t hear from me, she had to give it to someone else (I totally understand!). I was so disappointed — but obviously God meant that particular book for someone else. Perhaps He’ll mean one of yours for me:)
long talks with my daughter, learning all about who God is growing her into, where he might be sending her, the growing deep of a soul, i love it and am humbled by it all at the same time. she is 10 and on the autism spectrum, but that doesn’t stop her from convicting and challenging me without even knowing she is doing it.
Getting up early is one of my favorite things & one I don’t do enough.
This season? Definitely taking time to enjoy the lights and sounds of the season…taking in some local free Christmas events in our city (like seeing “It’s a Wonderful Life” with my husband yesterday afternoon at the beautiful and historic Tennessee Theater – fun!!)…making unhurried, uninterrupted time for my grandchildren…baking for gifting…being intentional about offering a random act of kindness every day this month…reflecting on, and journaling about, the Ultimate Gift…and, of course, a luscious mocha hot chocolate every now and then!
watching my 4 yr old writing out grocery lists for me…that little one’s penmanship amkes my heart melt.
Conversations that meander through our hearts and souls. I walk away feeling inspired, encouraged, and affirmed.
My husband works far from home so sometimes I don’t get to see him for months at a time. One of my favorite things to do when he finally gets to come home is to have a lazy morning and enjoy breakfast in bed with him. It’s one of the things he says he so looks forward to when he finally gets to come home for a while.
A few of my favorite things:
-My husband coming home from a long night of work in the rail yard.
– Hugs from my tall 20 year old son.
– Long chats with my daughter via phone. ( she lives in another state)
– Time with my 11 month old grandson, even if it has to be via Skype
– Worship with like minded believers
– Conversations around Truth
– Quiet
– Giving Light to women in crisis pregnancy
– Shalom in the Messiah
– The Word and my pen.
Getting lost in a spontaneous sewing project. The decadent feeling of letting everything fall by the wayside as I lose track of hours at a time. Recalling childhood when such experiences were common but unremarked upon. Wondering which is better-having all the time in the world to lose myself unnoticed, or to have it happen rarely but with the full knowledge of what a gift such experiences are?
I love, love staying up too late with a book I can’t put down. Would love to read yours!
Some of my favorite things include my 16 year old, 6’4″ son kissing my forehead unexpectedly and saying “I love you Momma”
– Slow, early mornings. Waking up before the hustle and bustle of my busy house begins, sitting with my coffee and cozy jammies and just allowing myself to be.
– Connecting with the girls I mentor. Seeing the Holy Spirit work inside of them and watching the “aha” moments when the pain from their past begins to disappear and Jesus begins to heal.
– Catching beauty in unexpected moments.
1-When the sun breaks through the clouds and you can see the rays that stretch for days.
2-when all 9 three year olds in my class tell me they love me simultaneously.
3-how God uses the simple things to tell me He loves me.
Favorite things:
Fishing on a slightly overcast day in the Minnesota summer on a Northern Lake with my husband and daughter
Acoustic Sunrise(music on a local radio station) on Sundays with a warm cup of coffee
A roaring fire in my fireplace, wrapped in a soft blanket dozing off on my couch
My chiropractor
Answered prayers
watching my baby kitty(rescue) play and “dance” around
The smell of a real Christmas tree in my house after 8 years without it
The look in my daughters eyes when she can tell we are so proud of her!
Earthy Smells like lavender, patchouli, sandlewood, cinnamon, ect.
The relief from back pain I get from practicing yoga
🙂
A wonderful gift I received yesterday was when my 17 year old daughter was the first one in the youth stand to stand during worship as we were leading “I Will Rise”. Wow…beyond words!! I also mentioned your new book and blog to her a few weeks ago and just the other day found that she has added your book to her shopping list. God is good!!
I LOVE driving up the canyon near my home. I’t where I dream of having a home because each time I go in, an overwhelming sense of peace and calm settles around and on me! It is so incredible and I can feel the Spirit near!
I love to open a blog in any part of my day that addresses some issue or concern I have been experiencing. Shows how much my Creator cares for me that He lets me receive that from someone’s words.
I love this idea! Let’s see…
1. The special date my husband and I had on Saturday night when we took ourselves to McDonald’s for a late supper after doing some Christmas shopping for each other and the kids. We sat, holding hands across the table, and really talked and really listened to each other without being rushed or distracted by children needing us “right now!”.
2. Snuggling under comfy blankets reading stories with our little ones.
3. Singing Christmas Carols in the car as we drive to appointments. Hearing the sweet little voices blending with my dear husband’s deep amazing voice as I sing along with all of them, treasured gifts I will always cherish.
4. Making a photo album/scrap book for the grandparents for Christmas this year as we all picked out favorite memories and pictures from the year to share with them.
5. Quiet time of whispered conversation with my husband before the sun comes up or the children wake.
6. Taking time to read a good book just for the fun of it…such a mini-vacation! I have started doing it almost every night. Relaxes me so quickly now.
Wow! Thank you for encouraging me to take some time to do this! And I would love to read that special book of yours, dear Emily!
My favorite things are also experiences…whispered conversations and silly giggles with my husband top the list! 🙂
Thanks for sharing these thoughts.
My favorite things, a walk (preferably alone) soaking in God’s glory and listening for the still small voice….
A cup of coffee with a friend, and a heart to heart conversation.
My kids!!
I would love to win your book, I’ve been sooo wanting to read it.
Flipping through the pages of a book that has lines highlighted in it. Lines that meant so much to me the first (and second and third) time I read the book. Lines that mean just as much to me today. And realizing that one day I might just have a book that someone else can highlight lines in.
Having my 15 year old son ask me to crawl into bed with him when he has something he wants to share about what’s going on his life…..these moments are very few and far between as he’s gotten older so they are such a blessed treasure when they happen.
sitting on the couch with my husband with the glow of the christmas tree lights, drinking hot chocolate and making my husband laugh his deep belly laugh
Hi Emily
One of my favorite things is the cardinals we have in our backyard. They are such a wonderful bright color in the dullness of winter and I love watching them at the feeder and drinking at the birdbath!
The moment I look forward to most, almost all year, is Christmas Eve. My entire family (parents, sisters, husbands, kids) all come together (we live more than 900 miles apart from each other). We will go to a candlelight service at church together, then come home for a fancy meal. We will enjoy a nice, long time around the table, recalling good times and bad. We will laugh, a lot. We will hug, a lot. We will cry, a little. And we will bask in the memory for a full year until we can all be together again.
I so appreciate your list and how it fits this space you’ve created.
One of my favorite things right now is watching the excitement in my son’s eyes as we listen to his father read the Advent devotions and make ornaments to hang on the Jesse tree. He’s full of anticipation and just enough of that childhood wonder to make me praise the Lord for being able to witness it.
Home. Not the physical space because this year has been all about learning Home beyond the physical.. in spite of the physical…and seeing and knowing and tucking in deep the Home in Him that no one can ever take away and no amount of moves or transition can alter:}
I’m a Florida raised girl, but currently live in Chicago. I love the beach. Not just any. Preferably one on the Atlantic Ocean. Whenever we visit Fl., I have to see the beach. My favorite thing is when I am walking towards it, and get close enough to smell the salty air. Then seeing the waves pounding on the shore. The vastness of the water as it spreads for miles. Knowing that there are other continents far away, that this same body of water touches. And, underneath the surface of the ocean, an entire world full of aquatic life. I can’t see the wind, but I know it’s there. Like God. I know He’s there because I see His creation, see the work of His hands. Close my eyes and feel it blowing on my face. See the waves crash and droplets of water float away. Hear the steady rhythm of water. All this, powered by His creation. The seagulls, calling out as they soar with the breezes. And the grains of sand, how vast His thoughts are toward us. Beautiful, peaceful, perfect!
My favorite thing, any day is our lake cabin. Any day, doing anything at the cabin, is better than any day doing anything anywhere else. Pace is slower, family is gathered, our focus is not on day to day chaos. Wonderful! Can’t wait for the next trip there in three weeks, two days, and 15 hours…but whose counting!
Popping popcorn and sharing it with my family, sometimes after school sometimes in the evening while watching our favourite show. There is something about having to eat it kernel by kernel that slows us all down and enjoy each other’s company.
Dana
One of my all-time “favorite” things… heart talk. You know, that deep, truth-filled, often challenging, yet inspiring sort of conversation with a close friend that warms your heart and fills you with a deep sense of God’s presence. Now that I’ve entered my post-college days, these conversations are fewer than they used to be with my best friend, but we had one just the other day over the phone discussing your book. Thank you thank you for putting words to our “good girl” struggle, and inspiring us to live free!
Love your favorites Emily!!! My hands-down most favorite thing to do is to go for a walk in nature with my husband and my camera. I cherish our times together, discovering a lovely lichen or pretty new flower as we did yesterday….and his patience in waiting for me to photograph it. I cherish these times with all my heart.
P.S. The quilt in the first picture looks warmly familiar to me. I think I have the same one. 😀
One of my favorite things is the smell of fall in the air. Fall is my favorite season, and along with the beautiful leaves there always seems to be a distinct smell of firewood and fresh clean air!
One of my favorite things: my 3 year old grandson. He lives next door, all I have to do it see him and I smile.
One of my favorite things is the sun shining in all its brilliance against the blue.. I always pause when I step outside. Faced turned toward heaven, the warmth on my cheeks. The peace it brings. Its as if God reaches down and cups my cheek and says, “My daughter I love you. You are so very special to me!” I feel grounded.
A few of my favorite things….my 13 y.o. son giving me a hug and a kiss on the cheek…just because; my 11 y.o. daughter inviting
me to curl up to watch a movie with her; my husband and I driving through the countryside enjoying a cup of Starbucks; quiet
moments in my house when I can sing and sense the Lord’s presence filling the room; our little Yorkie snuggling beside me when
I curl up in a chair to read; the ‘ aww…thanks Mom’ from my children when they find fresh-baked cookies on the table or a new
shirt tucked in their drawer; my husband’s willlingness to shop with me, his bear hugs, his phone calls throughout the day just to
check in with me, our visit every Fall to Lancaster, PA. I am grateful beyond words for blessings I don’t deserve and for God’s
amazing grace….
The special moments with my husband when we share in the joy of cute or special things our kids did–and only we can appreciate most.
My favorite thing is getting my daughter out of her crib after naptime. I do love your #8. That is a good idea!
For me, the music of the season is my favorite. To walk into a store and hear the Hallelujah Chorus playing. To have Christmas music going all day long in the house, on the radio in the car, all around us. Without the decorating or the gifts or the busyness, it would still be Christmas with the music. Of course there are increasingly more secular Christmas-ish songs, but when we still hear the songs with the beautiful message, what a gift! (Would love a copy of your book, too)
My favorite thing are my youngest son’s dimples that seem to go all the way down into his face… and then his eyes… and then my oldest’s heart . . .
I love my family.
One of my favorite things has got to be #9 on your list. When we struggle with what we should do and what our calling is and what direction God would have us take. He has already given his answer in Micah 6:8. Thanks for that reminder friend.
My favorite things are things I’m thankful for:
1. Every night when I crawl into bed, I am struck–yes, struck–by the blessing of a warm, peaceful home and a clean bed with lots of heavy, warm blankets. If my husband is already there asleep, the blessing of having him there, peacefully sleeping–THAT is a very favorite thing. I drift off to sleep in a prayer of thankfulness for all the blessings in our life as husband and wife/father and mother.
2. Precious grandchildren, because they are God’s gift for me to now, to be a grand-mama. I get to be a “mama” again–a top favorite), as a grand-mama…with more time, more insight. And I get to hold little hands, and talk, and sing, and play, and most importantly, hold and love, all over again.
3. Quality time spent with my husband, like buying our Christmas tree then going to a little restaurant in town for a burger and sub. We see our car with the tree tied to the top (that in itself is a favorite scene!), watch the world go by, and talk about what the grandbabies will say when they see our decorated tree.
Life’s blessings.
One of my favorite things is when all the children are in bed, and the house is quiet, and everyone (but me) is sleeping: the husband, the dog, the cat…..and then it hits me—–how blessed I am. I look at the children sleeping—and am overwhelmed that these little lives have been entrusted to me. The quietness brings thankfulness.
I’m thankful for those moments that you just described. My favorite is waking up early before anyone else when the house is still quiet, and I have time to just breath. I have freedom to read, or pray, or just sit with some coffee. Those peaceful moments help me keep everything in perspective.
I took my three gifts from God (16, 7, and 4) out to a cotton field last Thursday to take pictures. It was a gorgeous afternoon in Georgia, and their laughter and piling on each other with hugs and funny faces was a joy that touched my heart. Being out in the field, the earthiness, made me feel so connected to my dear Daddy who left this world two weeks ago after a long, brave battle with cancer. It’s in moments like this that I feel the Holy Spirit gently tugging at our hearts, helping us to celebrate the joys in life, and to let go of the grief just a little bit, for that moment. A precious gift indeed.
Sitting in front of the Christmas tree at night, getting lost in the lights.
Thank you so much for sharing this list. It makes me want to create my own. So many of the things on your list are my favourite and things I haven’t done in a long time because of the stress and crazy transitions I am facing in life right now, but are things that I need to calm the storm. I love making a spot in the house where I can wake up in the morning and have my coffee/tea and do devotions. I’m living in a new home and have created that spot. You can visit my blog to see it. I write about two places (one where I was away for a few days and one here: http://goo.gl/Zbdrz and http://goo.gl/Pg2mp I am definitely going to think about my list and create it. Thanks you again for sharing your thoughts and encouraging so many of us!
Heartily laugh and feel the warmth of joy spread through all my being and ease every ache…
Listening to my children pray for each other.
Sitting on the beach listening to the waves crash in the surf. It is the most relaxing and peaceful thing I can think of.
Well, dear Emily, I would have to say, and this is very genuine, chatting at the sky has been a new discovery for me this year and I would have to say it is one of my favourite things! xxx
When my 15-month old daughter grabs my face in her hands and gives me a kiss or strokes my face as if telling me all is well… PRICELESS!
~The calmness and quietness after and during a snow.
~Reading a book next to the twinkling lights on the Christmas tree
~Hugs from people I love.
I also love Parenthood! What a great show. My husband and I watch it together and always have such great conversations afterward. One of my favorite things is a Cinnamon Dolce Latte or Chai Latte (that i make myself) in the quiet of the afternoon when babies are napping. It’s a nice little treat an a time to sit, relax and reflect on the day before heading into the supper rush! I loved your book and would love to win one to gift to someone 🙂
When I hear my Savior whispering to me, as I go about my day. Whether I’m trying to get tasks done so I can sit and visit with Him, or finding more tasks so I don’t have to face Him. I cannot deny the sweetness of His pursuit as I hear Him softy clearing His throat and sense him waiting for me on the couch with a steaming cup of coffee.
A few of my favorite things are the movie the song is from…”The Sound of Music”… and “My Fair Lady”… and “The Story of Us”…and the book in your picture…”Walk on Water” by Madeleine L’Engle… and hour of uninterrupted time reading my Bible and talking out loud to God about whatever is on my mind… a perfectly white and untouched new-fallen snow… cardinals… blue jays (noisy but beautiful)…the Red Sox… the different colors of leaves in the fall… the ground hog we have named “caddyshack” who lives in our back yard… summer… every minute of summer… long hot summer… clear blue cloudless skies… or blue skies with big puffy white clouds that look like cotton candy… the first flowers of spring… Irish Breakfast Tea… Scottish Shortbread… and anything that Andrea Boccelli sings… but especially “The Prayer” with Celine Dion. I could go on… but I won’t … love to read so would love the book.
I love this post. It gets my mind moving with wonderful memories. My heart is full as I think of the wonderful things I have experienced, if only for a moment. Favorite things doesn’t and most likely isn’t an object but a time, a memory, a feeling that has left it’s imprint on our hearts and lives.
Living above our church in a small apartment with my 2 sisters, 1 brother and 2 parents. No TV, just imagination and a record player. Popping popcorn, turning off the lights except on the Christmas tree, listening to our favorite Christmas record, The Sounds of Christmas. Dreaming of Christmas morning, loving the time together. As close as a family can be. This is one of my favorite things.
My favorite gift this year has been rest. It came in an unlikely package when I was diagnosed with MS, but I truly am grateful for the time to go deeper into the truths that my value is not connected to my productivity in God’s kingdom. I’ve been able to let go of the guilt connected to incomplete lists and learn to listen to His voice, rather than the condemners, who was always driving me to do more, telling me it was laziness to not work, to take time to just be. I’ve had some of the sweetest times of fellowship with Jesus in this new freedom. I’m so thankful because they were lessons I had “believed” and even “taught”…but if we don’t extend to ourselves the same grace we extend to others, we haven’t really believed it yet, have we?
Thanks for your ministry of words and encouragement, Emily. I appreciate you.
posting on facebook now….this too my gift to myself and others to offer recieve the giving to ourselves and others these simple things
That first slow, whole, soothing deep breath as you fill your lungs with air after holding your breath all day long at work. Which reminds me, since I am currently at work, that there’s no reason I can’t breathe that way all day long. 🙂 Mmm.
My favorite gift this year has been enjoying my now 16 month old first grandchild. I have delighted in the lessons I am learning about being as a child before my heavenly Father.
There isn’t anything better than a grandchild. I also have a 16 month old grandson. Our first, its wonderful. I love the wonder in his eyes as he looks at the tree and says, Oh Wow!!! Highlight of my day.
A few of my favorite things:
coffeee
a cold winter day
flowers
driving through the mountains in Alaska
tea parties
Christmas music
To realize at age 56 that other women have been through trials similar to mine and lived to tell the tale….of twin daughters leaving for college and setting out to write their own story… of rough times in marriage and dark moments where my heart feels it will break if I take another breath, of their own mothers that are diagnosed with dementia, and living alone….
These times of my re”fine”ment in the fire have me excited to see what my Savior builds with the ashes. They have me realizing that the women that have gone before me and lived through their life experiences have much to teach me yet! I am not done learning! In missing my own daughters so profoundly I have realized that the older generation of my own mother and her peers have lived through these things and even more. And they have much to share, if I will only take the time and listen.
Father, give me the grace to slow down, hold hands, share my “therapy” puppy, and listen… Thank you for thinking enough of me to send your only Son, to this earth, separated from you for over 30 years… how difficult that must have been for both of you. But Jesus had a purpose in this life, to bring eternal life to us. And You, the Dream Giver, encouraged Him to fulfill that purpose. I am eternally grateful that you did!
Pearls of luminescent wisdom:
“Every good day is a victory!”
spoken from 83 years of life, though Alzheimer’s looms.My father’s legacy of thankFULLness continues.
A few of my many faves…
– the soft glow when there is fresh snow on top of Christmas lights
– listening to an all night thunderstorm
– at the theater, those few seconds when the logo comes up (20th Century Fox or whatever) right before the movie starts and you can settle in to be entertained with a story.
– and the sound of the curtain opening in a dark theater at the start of a play
– my teenage son seeing me in the hall at school and saying ‘I Love You, Mom’ in front of all his friends.
Adding “touches” to my home that make it come alive.
Yesterday I had just a minute and hung a Christmas top (a quilt not yet quilted) in the kitchen…. something to hold me over until the semester is over and I can play elf freely!
I smile every time I walk into the kitchen. 😀
My beloved&unconditionally loving rescue pups, and knowing I desperately want to bring them a pup or 2 to adore&teach as their also-rescued mommadawg did (no relation, any, but you wouldn’t know it). Animals that have suffered the horrors mine have deserve love unlimited, socialization with dogs&people, and the chance to learn from pack elders. So many never have any of it. If I mention the old-one’s name, still, 3yrs later- they whimper&look for her. 2 80#’s @9&11 looking for momma. And they’re “just animals”? Nope. And my feral kitties, who show up for dinner&stay when it’s brutally NE OH winter-for the warm milkµ’d heatpax heaped on the straw in the “cathouse”-and slowly,gently they respond and show their gratefulness. God’s creatures all,and kinder&gentler than a lot of humans,hence their fear. We are called to be stewards. I want to be a good/better one. Befor the phone gives it up,thank you Emily. For all you do&share&encourege. Wishing you blessings always-s-
So many favorites but my top faves would be…when my cat, Jasper, is curled up in my arms for the night and he gently sings his purring tune to me. Walking onto the beach and the crashing of the waves drown out all of life and I seem so insignificant there next to God’s mighty hand. Leaving my home in Costa Rica to come home to Missouri (for vacation) and to be welcomed back with long hugs and gab fests in hopes it makes up for the last year gone and will supply the next year to come.
A couple of my favorite things are: Having a morning or day to just float from one thing to another that needs to be done without being interrupted. My favorite area to do this is outside in my flower garden. Another thing is reading the Bible together with my son as he snuggles up beside me. This is a big deal since he is 12 years old and I know that will be uncool soon. Thank you for your encouraging post.
really going to workon your #7, but one of my favorites things to do is a cup of hot chocolate with a scoop of vanilla to make it creamy, along with a good book to read.
Love this! A hot bath with some kind of spicy bubble bath added, a good book, and noone home so I can enjoy a good soak.. and hearing my nine year old loudly coming in the front door to disturb me =)
My 7 year old son writes me love notes EVERY day at school. They say things like “I love Momy so mutch”, and they are PRICELESS. It’s my favorite thing in the world, and I will keep and treasure them forever.
Hugs,
Melanie
The company of a good friend who just through her presence and love and listening ear and understanding heart makes me a better mother, wife, child of God…and when I can do that for her too!
Getting a chance to sit down while both kids r napping and catch up on my 1000 gifts and reread ann’s book drinking hot tea!
1. the first glass of eggnog
2. the sound of artisan bread cooling
3. discovering a poem I know, but forgot
4. celebrating Advent for the first time with my husband
5. a new, good book
6. a good, old book
7. making fresh pasta with a friend
8. time to journal
9. meeting a deadline–early
10. unexpected laughter
cuddles with my little one, in fleece blankets on the sofa, watching his favorite movie, again 😉
long phone calls with kindred spirits
my tiny house decorated for christmas
hot tea on cold days, the promise of cold tea on hot days!
Knowing that at the end each day I can snuggle warm under my blankets and know that God is sovereign.
Laughter. The kind of laughter when you’re so tickled that you can’t stop laughing, and it makes you cry. We have such a tendency to take ourselves and our lives so seriously, and I’m afraid that we rob ourselves of this kind of joy, this kind of laughter.
Hugs. A hug from someone that loves you with all of their heart, and they hug you like they mean it – like they want that love to come through their hug.
Sincerity. People who let their guards down and allow you feel safe to let your guard down. They’re real, and you’re real. One of my favorite things about family and good friends – sincerity.
I am so blessed to get to have all of these things when I go home for the holidays. These are the things I look forward to most. I’ve recently moved far away from my family for the first time, and these things are even more precious than ever to me. I have crazy brothers that are going to make me laugh until I cry. I have a Dad who gives the best hugs in the world. I have a Mom who is my very best and most sincere friend.
Thank you for this little exercise in reminding me of my favorite things. They’re so much better than the “thing-type” things!
Ahhh, Parenthood. A-dict-ed. So good. So real.
I allowed myself a couple this weekend..
1. taking a walk among the gorgeous fall leaves with my husband
2. taking time to make something for my home/family not just for my business
3. supportive role with my husband in his pastor role
4. writing on my blog about blessings and amazing grace stories
I would love a copy of your book for myself and my daughter to read! thanks, emily!
beautiful post
an awesome list…so simple…so good
my favourite thing…learning to Love my father with a forgiving daughters heart
Love and Light
Not too long after sunrise (but not that early) my husband and I walk down to a little tidal pool in the village. We sit in the sun for a few minutes and bask, then dive into the sometimes icy, sometimes less icy water, swim a few lengths, sit and bask for a few more minutes and then amble home.
Not too long before sunset, my husband, daughter, dog and I (sometimes with a stepson in tow) walk down to the harbour or beach just below our house. We frolic a little, she shrieks, I sigh contentedly and say thank you.
The sound and sight of the ocean. The company of good friends sharing a leisurely meal. Bright blue October skies. Silly laughter that dissolves into tears. A good hair day. The Spirit speaking into my soul thru songs.
a big tickle fight on our living room floor with my husband and our kids.
however, the tickling must end when someone accidentally pees from laughing, usually my 3 year old daughter 🙂
Today: the children finding the pieces to the Little People Nativity and setting it up under the small tree we’re using for our Jesse Tree. So sweet.
I love my early morning coffee and time with Jesus.
And I do absolutely love your number 9.
A kiss on the cheek from my husband, or my baby girl.
A run in the cold.
A good book 🙂
Love your favorites, Emily! No need to enter me in the drawing for your book. I just had to tell you that your book is one of my very favorite things this year! I have so enjoyed gathering with friends and talking it through. It has been so good – and that time together has been a favorite of mine lately too. Bummed that we only have one week left of your book.
I already have a copy of the book (so please give to someone else!), but thought it was funny when you said, “take a book off the shelf you’ve been meaning to read and spend 15 minutes with it”…both of my girls were napping this afternoon and I did just that…guess which book I grabbed, “Grace for the Good Girl”! I’m only a couple of pages in, but I can already tell there is a message in there for my heart!
Thank you…finally a list of FREE favorite things. Aren’t those the best anyway? On my list of favorites would be…. homemade hot cocoa, it always puts a smile on the little kids’ faces! And my favorite non-free thing that I would give to everyone if I could is the book One Thousand Gifts. Hoping to have a chance to add Grace for the Good Girl to my list of faves!!
rocking my little one to sleep
Hmmm..One of my favortie things is a weekend at home with the family – being lazy, sleeping late and absolutely no plans – freedom to be. Ahhhhh..
-Colleen G.
I love when we are sitting on the couch together, watching Cupcake Wars or House Hunters, and Moose {my youngest} looks around, realizes even the cat and both dogs have joined around our feet or behind our heads, and announces: “Look! The whole family’s here.” I know the years are going so fast and one day, though we’ll be bound at heart and share the same sky, we won’t share the same roof. So, I’m especially grateful for these years and these moments when the whole family’s HERE.
Hugs from my 3 boys every morning before they head out into the cold hard world known as middle school!
One of my favorite free things this season is to sit in the livingroom with all of the lights turned out except the Christmas tree lights and the fireplace glow and talk — or listen — to my young ones or my beloved one. Just fully engaging with them, in a restful, non-hurried way.
My favorite thing is to watch my kids learn and grow on our farm. The independence and life lessons that a farm allows children is pricesless.
Immersing myself in the pictures of my son’s first biological daughter he posts on Facebook. It’s indescribable joy to see the physical characteristics “handed down” to the next generation!
One of my favorite *free* things at Christmas time is walking through those neighborhoods all decked out in lights for Christmas with my hubby and daughter while we drink hot cocoa. Seriously, I cannot wait to bundle up and go this year!
The anticipation of a new book, lighting the candles for dinner (no matter what we’re eating!), pleasure of giving Christmas gifts.
Walks in the quiet of nature, completely unplugged and alone. Earbuds just ruin it!
Downtime when I can put aside a hectic schedule of work, graduate school, ministry leadership responsibilities, friends/family’s needs, etc. and just be quiet. Alone. And guilt-free!
A cup of hot chocolate and good book by the Christmas tree.
Time and openness with a dear friend whose hugs say just as much as her words.
One night before Christmas, my daughter and I get ice cream cones. from a local store. We eat them while I drive us around town looking at Christmas lights. We’ve been doing this since she was around 3 or 4 years old. She’s 13 now and has already asked when we’re going out this year!
This is so fantastic, Emily. I’m so happy I found your blog!
My favorite thing is hearing the sweet sound of a five year old girl and a six year old boy come barreling thru my front door yelling “Granny”!
I love being with my family. Not rushing around, trying to get things done, but just sitting and enjoying our time together.
Enjoyed reading your post today. Giving/allowing time for oneself, just being still, is important and not done enough. One of my favorites is a long bike ride, losing myself on a trail in the woods.
One of my favorite things to do that doesn’t require spending money is giving my time to help the community or organizations. I don’t have a lot of $ or much talent, but I do a willingness to learn and give back. Its a humbling experience and makes me feel good knowing that I can and have made a difference.
In keeping with the list of things you might be able to “give” someone, and in keeping with the intangible quality of it.
I would give every person I know the same assurance I have in my writing. I know, with certainty, that I am absolutely full of stories to be told. I am certain that they are important stories that no one else seems to be telling. I am certain that God is and will continue to use these stories to touch and impact people’s lives to a breadth and degree I can’t even imagine. And even if I never get a deal with an agent and a publishing house and all that, I know that this is a talent I have been given and that I need to steward it well. I would give every one of my friends the insight into themselves to recognize what their Art is and, even if they can’t do much with it right now, to honor it and recognize it and keep it ever in mind as something to watch for nooks and crannies they can tuck it into.
Favorite things include…
The whole family — Mommy, Daddy and four little preciouses camping out in the living room, sleeping bags and all, with the Christmas tree with the lights on as we fall asleep. We do this during the week after Christmas.
One of my favorite “FREE” things is that moment at night just before I go to sleep and I reach my foot over to my sleeping husband and touch his leg — just to “know” that he is there. I love that moment!
One of my favorite things is to have no where that I have to go. Then I can attack the to-do list in any order I want to. And spend time just staring out the window if I want to. Ah, it doesn’t happen often enough.
My favorite free thing is to just be – while walking in the woods on a quiet autumn day, or while sitting at home with a good book, or watching the people walk past at my favorite coffee shop. I love those moments when I’m still enough to watch the world around me and let it soak in.
My favorite non-free thing? Chocolate. 🙂
Walking hand in hand with my sweet husband of 30 years. I am blessed.
My favorite things… My favorite things…
Probably sitting on my dear friend’s back porch with coffee in hand, watching her little one walk around on wobbly legs, and enjoying sweet conversation. I love conversations and time spent with her because it means I get to glean a little bit of her wisdom and share some sweet God-moments. (:
Watching my babies sleep when I go on to check on them at night before I go to bed for the night.
I love building. Making. Creating. I can’t find the word that fits all of the different aspects where I like to apply it. I love to have a vision, see potential, and realize it. In a cake. In a set of shelves for my closet. In a quilt, or in a friend. If you have a word for that, I’ll take that over the book. Although the book would be nice, too 🙂
I surely do love a nice walk on a crisp Fall day but I think babies trump the walk. There is nothing like a baby; they bring hope and optimism. They look at the world differently and they make us look at the world differently. God changes the world with the birth of every single baby.
Jill Farris
Being in the barn with the horses on a chilly night: listening to them rustle in their hay; breathing in the sweet scents of molasses, leather, and dust; settling in to the stillness; resting in the quiet; feeling the warmth and fuzziness of a horse’s winter coat beneath my fingers. So much peace.
a hike in the woods with my family, knowing that my kids’ day included some outdoor play, hugs from my girls, a glass of wine with my husband at the end of the day.
At this new, empty nest stage of life, one of my favorite things is getting to set two extra places at the table and know that my girls will be sharing supper and their stories with us that night. My other favorite thing is when all the bedrooms in the house are filled with my girls and guests. I love waking up early in the morning and seeing all the other bedroom doors closed with people I loved tucked in tight. Sappy, I know. But that is what I couldn’t wait to write.
One of my favorite things is to walk my dog in the park close to our house and to pray and just really enjoy being.
One of my favorite things is staying home and not running around in my car!
A hard yoga class and then lying exhausted on the mat being with God. Conversations with new friends (and old ones too). Being in the woods. Cuddling with my hubby on a lazy Saturday morning. Pink Lady apples and ruby red grapefruit. Dreaming. 🙂
Curling up with a book in a quiet house for hours. What a treat.
one of my very favorite things in the whole world is snuggling up with my husband and kids at bedtime to read in our bed. there is nothing better than that! : )
One of my favorite things is when you can tell someone loves you, a child running to give you a hug, someone telling you they have been praying for you, homemade gifts from anyone, when ever someone says “i missed you”. – Second to this is a really cozy warm bed in the winter, piled high with a million blankets and a good book.
I love sweet moments with my husband … so grateful for him. Great, big hugs from my two year old niece. Good cup of coffee shared with a friend. And during this cold time of year, I love scarves! 🙂
One of my favorite things is when my “baby” sleeps with me and he snuggles close, spooning with one leg wrapped between mine and all his curls right in my face, not even tickling because it’s so “us”…I just breathe him in and we are wrapped up, snug as two bugs, me and him, my sweet boy and me…as it has always been …for 6 years now. God sure knows what GIFTS to give! SO BLESSED!
When I can smell and feel the ocean breeze before I get to the path leading down to it for the first time, the feel of sand on my bare feet; the first cup of coffee in the morning in my favorite cup; my daisy bookmark; a new book to start; the precise moment the snow starts to fall…………………..
karen:)
Hearing our girls share as we discuss what Christmas will look like this year: Well, really what is important is that we spend time together. If there are no gifts, no big meals, just being together is enough.
Sweet words from young adults.
Came over from My 3 LIttle Birds and got such a blessing! Thanks for such a wonderful list —it puts things into perpective when I look at it. You are a fabulous writer and I will back! So glad ML linked to you today!!! Blessings to you!
The sound of my two beautiful teenagers laughing together. Children singing the praises of God. The smell of pine. Flowers. Prayers. Smiles. Hugs. Being with family. Sharing with friends. Hot chocolate with mini marshmallows. Candy canes. Christmas lights. Being blessed and being a blessing to others. And “Grace for the Good Girl”. Bought a copy a little while ago and can’t wait to give it to my sister and girlfriends for Christmas. I will share my copy with my amazing daughter 🙂
I like the warmth of hot green tea at 6am before I rush into getting ready for school (at age 50!). 🙂
One of my favorite things, watching the very first heavy snowfall of the season from inside our warm home.
I have lots of favorites, but one of my most favorite things is Sunday nights! All the family is home, we have snacks together and talk about our plans for the week. We normally watch America’s Funniest home videos together and I love to hear the sounds of the teen’s laughter!
I need that book so BADLY!!!! One of my favorite things is when either of my kids say I LOVE YOU and give me one of those bear hugs…..ANY day turns into the BEST.DAY.EVER!
wow- great post- I am so glad my friend mentioned you on facebook! Thanks for the good thoughts and reminders to slow down!
I love to read anything inspiration…so of course I would so love to win your book! Thanks for the chance! Oh, I also love children! Is there anything in all the world more beautiful!? NOW, if I could only remember that at times I am frustrated with my own precious ones!! Merrry Christmastime!
favorite thing: coffee in my hands, scarf around my neck and cold wind hitting my face 🙂
I love that your list consists of things that are not things. And I loved your book! I would love to have one to give away. Blessings Emily. I love your spirit.
All seven of our bunch around a noisy dinner table…holding hands and giving thanks.
One of my favorite things is walking my dog in the morning- it is crisp, cold, clear, and QUIET! My husband usually goes with me, and it gives us a small time to spend with one another before the busyness of the day! I would so love to win a copy of your book- it has been on my wish list since it came out, and I am looking forward to sitting down with a good cup of coffee to read it!
My favorite things are:
Walking the dog and seeing her joy in chasing a simple ball
Staying in bed a few extra minutes to think and read
The smell of a new baby
Laughing with my sisters
Completing a goal
Calling your son, the one who just left for college a few months ago, and savoring the sound of his phone answering the cell phone.
Every time I call him, I get the same excitement at hearing his voice…priceless.
These are a few of my favorite things, I just couldn’t resist. That song is one of my favorites. So is the quiet stillness of our home before there are mouths to feed and necks to hug. Snow glistening in the sunshine. The smell of a new book opened for the very first time. Hands being held during prayer and hands lifted high in worship. Tapping of the keyboard, which means I had time to write.
Climbing into bed marveling the tiny, twinkly table-top Christmas tree that sits on the dresser.
Favorite thing? Has to be when my Rocket Man brushes the hair back from my face when he thinks I’m asleep, kisses me gently on the cheek and whispers, “God bless and keep my Molli” Yep! that is far and away my favorite thing.
One of my favorite things is being able to spend one-on-one time with my girls. With three little ones, sometimes I forget to take each child for what she’s worth, so getting away with her, whether it’s my 7-year-old who’s curious about the world, my 5-year-old who wants to be just like her older sister, or my 3-year-old who’s always on the move, I love learning a little more about them as individual people, getting to know the people they are and are becoming.
Watching them instead of the tree the first time the lights come on. Watching the wonderment. Oh-so one of my favorites.
1) I always appreciate getting home and changing into a nice, fluffy, comfy pair of pajamas (get out of those un-comfy jeans!). Add to that a cup of tea and a snuggle with the hubby, and I’m happy and praising Jesus for the seemingly small things of life!
Time each evening with my husband. I’m usually busy in the evening with so much to accomplish after a day at work, but now that all our children are in college and living away from home, he seems to want this time with me. So, the closets won’t get cleaned and there are no Christmas decorations up, but we’ve spent several evenings in front of the fire, watching TV, talking and eating dinner. This is a gift to both of us.
The laughter fo little children (especially my grandson) and having everyone ate the dinner table together,
Nursing my littlest one!
snow flakes falling on my boys tongues and hot chocolate with lots of marshmallows; tickle fights; cozying up with a good book- perhaps yours if I win!
I love nursing my daughters! Those snuggles and bonding… I know that I will always look back on this time with great joy.
And I love to read (and write) as well. Working on making time for the writing bit. 🙂
When my almosy 4-year-old tells me he needs five more hugs. I am a hugger and that fills me up!
One of my favourite things is getting ambushed by a story idea late at night and staying up too late to finish it and not even reading over what I’ve written till morning light.
I love the moments when my busy 15-month-old actually lets me hold her for a second. She leans on into my arms for my comfort and love, and I’m reminded time and again of how much my Savior up above loves me!
Omigoodness. You invite us to quietness, and then you serve up ways to live with Him there. You really do want our souls to breathe, don’t you? I’m almost embarrassed to show my face here, you giving so much, me needing it… Oh what a gift you are to me today!
Oh how I desperately need this book and its message!